What we did and when we did it. Sometimes.

What we did and when we did it. Sometimes. People, places and events to remember.

Sunday, January 19, 2014

A Few Days Without Daddy

My husband has been out of town for a few days.

He doesn't travel often, so when he does, the kids and I bumble around a bit.  We miss him.  

This week, we have eaten lots of chicken nuggets and fries, frozen pizza, popcorn and M&Ms.  The kids also ate fruit, but I'm honestly not sure if they've even seen a vegetable since Tuesday.

On Wednesday, I took them to school ... late.  I was overly ambitious when I made breakfast - scrambled eggs and toast.  By the time we got to school, the teachers and crossing guards had left their posts and there were no other cars at all in the dropoff lane.  Oops.

Wednesday afternoon, Ben had to see the ENT before I pre-registered him at the hospital for ear tube surgery.

Thursday, Ben had surgery to put tubes in his ears.  The procedure itself was simple and short, but I was still nervous.  Anesthesia!  Fortunately, my friend Beckie came to hang out with us at the hospital.  And Ben was a rock star.  In and out, mostly happy.  The nurses kept saying how cute he is.

We picked up lunch for the big kids and met them at school.  They both enjoyed showing Ben off to their classmates.  Evan's class know Ben pretty well; they have seen him at school for programs for the last 3.5 years.  Corrie's classmates got to meet him for the first time.  Ben basically spends his time at school crawling or walking around the gym surrounded by a dozen other kids, who are all trying to give him a high five or throw him a ball or something.  He's quite popular.

Our other daddy-less activities included: two Star Wars movie nights and the Run or Dye 5K.  (And a couple of facetime chats with Daddy, Gamma, Papa and Auntie Jen).




Originally, I thought I would run the 5K with Evan.  He loves to run, and I didn't think he would have any trouble doing 3.5 miles.  However, I didn't realize that Emmett wouldn't be there to watch the other kids ... and then I did absolutely no training after one initial run with Evan in early December.

So ... I walked with Corrie and Ben.  Evan ran ahead and finally walked us for the last kilometer or so.  




Evan felt that dodging the color would demonstrate how fast he was, so he tried to avoid the dye as much as possible.  The blue guys got him the most.

Corrie got lots of color.  After our first dye-ing experience, she sighed, "Mom, I got a LOT of color thrown at me.  It's because I'm so adorable."  No self-confidence problems here.  


Ben ended up with more color than the rest of us.  Every time we went through a color station, the volunteers would squeal, "A baby!" and gently throw color at him.  It occurred to me during bath time after the race that I might should have protected Ben a little bit more.  He wasn't bothered at all, but his ears are still tinted blue and yellow.  Maybe it wasn't a good idea to throw powdered dye at someone who just got tubes put in.  Live and learn.


All in all, we survived pretty well without Dad.  We failed on healthy eating and boy did I get impatient at bedtime, but we did manage to navigate one surgical procedure AND a 5K run/walk.  I'm satisfied.

Thankfully, Emmett arrived home this morning, and we have been relishing his attention all day long.  He has danced with Corrie around the living room, listened to Evan recap the latest Minecraft adventures, and shared his dinner with Ben.  We watched football and napped on the couch.  All is right with the world.

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

2013 In Review (From the Kids)

For the past couple of years, I have read and considered the New Year's Eve reflection questions from Tsh at The Art of Simple.  This year, she included 10 questions for kids.  For quiet time today, I gave Evan and Corrie a list of questions to answer.  Tonight, we talked about them before bed.  

Their answers:
 1. What was your favorite thing from this past spring?
Evan: My favrite thing in spring was school ending.
Corrie: I started dance balay.  (ballet)

2.  What was your favorite thing from the summer?
Evan: Going to a ranch.
Corrie: We went to swimming.

3.  What was your favorite thing from this past fall?
Evan: Football.
Corrie: Start Canterbury (She started kindergarten this year).

4.  What was your favorite thing from this past winter?
Evan: Watching Frozen.
Corrie: Frozen.

5.  What was the hardest thing that happened?
Evan: UIL was the most challenging thing this year.  (Math competition)
Corrie: Spilling a deeck.  (drink) - She spilled a drink about half an hour before answering this question.  We had friends over, so she was embarrassed, and she had to change clothes.  There were many tears.

6.  What were the best books you read this year?
Evan: Percy Jackson and Lloyd Alexander
Corrie: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe

7.  Who were the most important people in your life?
Evan: My family, then David and Aidan
Corrie: Blue blankie

8.  What was your favorite thing that you learned this year?
Evan: Math
Corrie: To Read

9.  How do you hope this year will be like this past year?
Evan: More books
Corrie: School

10.  How do you hope this next year will be different for you?
Evan: Less writing.
Corrie: New dance class.

Emmett and I were talking about Ben's possible answers to the questions.  I think Ben's favorite thing in every season is Signing Time, plus he loved our trip to the ranch.  Ben hasn't had too many hard things ... he did fall into the coffee table when he was practicing walking a few weeks ago.  Favorite book: probably Eric Carle's From Head to Toe.  He also loves to read the Signing Time books and sign to himself.  Most important people:  I think he would say his mother.  :)  His favorite thing he learned: the feelings signs (happy, surprised, grumpy, scared, etc).   We hope that next year will be similarly fun for him and his siblings - they enjoy each other very much.  And we hope that next year will have Ben learning to walk - and hopefully saying (not just signing!) some words.

I have many editorial comments about Evan and Corrie's responses.  For example, Corrie has been learning SO MUCH this year - riding a bike, reading, math - it's amazing to see all the ways she's grown in just the past few months.  However, I will use this space to record and remember their responses.  And maybe later I will post my thoughts about them.  :)